When Something in Your Relationship Doesn’t Feel Quite Right
Sometimes the most unsettling part of a relationship isn’t what’s happening on the surface — it’s the growing sense that you’re losing your footing internally. You may not be able to point to a specific incident or name what’s wrong, but you notice that you feel increasingly confused, tense, or unsure of yourself. This post is written for adults who are in a relationship and are beginning to notice patterns that feel unsettling or hard to explain. Often, these realizations


Burn the Boats? A Therapist’s Perspective on Dedication, Goals, and Flexibility
You may have heard the saying, “If you want to take the island, burn the boats.” The idea is simple: if you eliminate all backup plans,...


From Worry to Support: Navigating the Unknown
From Worry to Support: Navigating the Unknown Uncertainty is one of the hardest things to sit with, especially when it involves someone...


Accepting Limitations: Understanding That Not Everything Can Be Changed
Accepting Limitations: Understanding That Not Everything Can Be Changed We all have characteristics that define who we are—some of which...


Dating is Like Job Hunting: The Right Fit Matters
Dating is Like Job Hunting: The Right Fit Matters Dating is often compared to job hunting, and for good reason. Both involve evaluating...


Curiosity vs. Worry: A Different Way to Approach Life
Curiosity vs. Worry: A Different Way to Approach Life I once had a friend who faced an extraordinary number of medical challenges. His...


Dealing with Defensiveness in Relationships: How to Navigate Tough Conversations
Dealing with Defensiveness in Relationships In my last blog post, I talked about the importance of addressing the “elephants in the room”...


How Many Elephants Can Fit in the Room? The Importance of Addressing Unspoken Issues in Relationships
How Many Elephants Can Fit in the Room? We’ve all heard the phrase “the elephant in the room.” It refers to something significant and...


Supporting Authenticity and Identity in Challenging Times
When I learned about the recent restrictions and limitations surrounding gender identity, I felt an overwhelming wave of sadness. I...


What to Expect in Your First Therapy Session
Starting therapy can feel both exciting and intimidating. Whether you’re seeking support for a specific issue or simply exploring ways to...
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